I'm Vitoria Cottiss, an Associate Marriage and Family Therapist based in Southern California. I offer therapy for individuals and couples in English and Portuguese, both in-person and through telehealth across California.

My approach is grounded in relational psychodynamic therapy, and mindfulness. I believe therapy is about uncovering the strengths and resilience already within you, exploring patterns that no longer serve, and creating space for deeper connection with yourself and others. Together, we use the therapeutic relationship as a mirror for unconscious dynamics and as a safe place to practice new ways of being.

I've worked in diverse settings including community clinics, grief camp, school, substance use treatment center, and a psychedelic therapy practice. These experiences allow me to meet clients with tenderness and nuance, especially when working through complexity, trauma, and transitions.

Outside of the therapy room, I recharge in the mountains, share meals with loved ones, and teach at Bastyr University. Healing, for me, is relational and rooted in curiosity, connection, and becoming more fully yourself. If you feel called to begin, I'd love to connect with you.